A decision, an action, and then a tragedy of tears are the obstacles
that lead to regret and self blame. Life is simply a collection of
your own choices. You are the one that is in charge of polishing your
own shoes, cleaning out your closet and brushing your teeth. These
are all personal issues of everyone’s life. One can chose to take his or
her shoes to a shoe shinning place or do it themselves. Or demand
a house helper to clean out their own closet for them or not and so
on…. A wise person once said, “Everything is a choice, except to die”.
Life is a bundle of surprises, expectations, choices and drama. Picture
that, watching your life on a T.V screen is exactly the same way you
watch a movie or series of some kind. Whether its comedy, romantic
or whatever. We are the ones that direct our lives to where they are
characterized now. Some people are able to take a little bite of each
treat and yet without affecting themselves by placing one priority
over the other. For Instance, you may find a person that is able to
deal with the ups and downs of his love life while, concentrating on
his studies with great grades. He chose his way and he was able to
live through his life plan. However, not anyone is capable of doing
it. That’s why we find high school dropouts, worn out house wives,
overweight bookworms, rag dolls and ect. These people did not take
direct action to prove themselves or show themselves the right way
to society.
The path is never vacant, there must be blockades of many shapes
and sizes that we must learn to leap over. She has failed her first test,
she must simply plan to study harder or ask for help to do well the
next time. However, she must not give up, considering herself dumb
or that the subject is too complex for her brain. If everything was
handed over to us on a silver plate, success won’t have its unique
taste. On the other hand, if we fight for what we want and work hard
to reach it, it will have a different meaning. Yes, there might be days
of non-sleep, thinking or tears of joy or sadness, but that’s all part
of the package. Remember high school graduation? Was it worth
it? Didn’t your eyes water? Were you able to sleep the day before
graduation and after? You’ve failed tests, had best friend fights,
personal family problems, got bad days, said words you didn’t mean
and made choices you regret latter. Yet, we didn’t sleep to pass the
next test, talked with our best friend and made it better, sat with
family members and solved the problem, and made the right choice
by saying sorry to the people we hurt. A broken glass can never be
put back together, but can be mended into a new one!
Simply….. Cry me a river, build a bridge, and get over it!
